Tuesday, May 25, 2010

im dateing a plusized girl i <3 alot,iv tried 2convince her shes beautifull & that i Actually PREFUR bigirls bt shes still very garded &sensitive about her size &dont want her2 think im teasing her how do i Convince her its ok 2 B who she is &I <3 her 4it

Just be patient with her, keep with it but don't overwhelm her and don't try to convince her as that usually comes out sounding fake even though you mean well. Also, it's just as much what you do, not just what you say, that'll show her how beautiful she is.

Unfortunately even in this more enlightened time, a bigger gal grows up with society pounding it in her mind that she has to be skinny and perfect to be beautiful.

It took me finding my hubby to realize that, even with all my faults and blemishes, I am quite lovely and know that others can see that too. Most importantly, I have come to love my body and that's what really counts.

If you're able to share porn with her, take her to a forum like Chubby Parade and show her the many galleries of other gals and all the supportive and lustful comments they get.

Ask me anything at all!

1 comment:

  1. Excellent advice! You're stunning, loved and intelligent... the whole package. God I wish I lived closer to you!

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